Tips for an allergy-friendly Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day means fun parties and delicious treats at school. But it may not be a holiday to love for the estimated 5.6 million children with food allergies in the United States. That's one in every 13 children.

"On average, two children in each classroom of a school likely have a food allergy," says April Clark, a registered dietitian with the Food Allergy Center at Children's Health℠. "Even if your child does not have a food allergy, it's likely that a classmate does. That's why it's helpful to choose allergy-friendly Valentine's Day treats and non-food items for children to hand out – and it's easy to do."

If your child's school has a Valentine's Day celebration or allows students to hand out goodies, here are some allergy-friendly tips to keep all students safe.

Avoid common food allergens

Unfortunately, some common allergens are frequently found in candies and snacks that kids love. The nine most common food allergens include:

• Eggs
• Fish
• Milk
• Peanuts
• Sesame
• Shellfish
• Soybeans
• Tree nuts
• Wheat

If you aren't sure whether children in your child’s class are allergic to these foods, it's best to steer clear of these common allergens in your Valentine's Day treats.

Read food labels

You should read every food label on any snacks or treats your child plans to share. Many candies and treats have special packaging for Valentine's Day, so it's important to always double-check ingredients. Fortunately, the FDA requires that the most common allergens be listed on all food labels, making it easy to see if a food contains a certain ingredient.

"The food label must state or list what allergens are in the food, in simple terms like milk or peanuts," says Clark. "This is a clear signal that allergens are present to consumers."

Food labels may also tell you if an item is manufactured in a place where common food allergens are present. It is best to avoid foods containing these warnings to ensure there is not cross contamination of a product with the common allergens.

Ask the school or teacher about food allergies

Since it can be hard to steer clear of all allergens, make sure to check with your child's teacher or the school if any kids in your child’s class have food allergies. If your child is headed to a celebration outside of school, ask the host or parent. If your child has a food allergy, make sure you've communicated with your child's school ahead of time about safety precautions for special events and parties.

"If you know there are children with allergies, talk to your child about not sharing their food with others, and how it puts other students at risk," Clark says.

Bring non-food Valentine's Day treats

Allergy-friendly snacks are not the only way to share goodies for Valentine's Day. Your child can also give non-food valentines to spread the love.

Some great non-food kids' Valentine's Day ideas include:

• Bouncy balls
• Bubbles
• Glow sticks
• Other small prizes or items
• Slime
• Small pieces of jewelry
• Stamps, crayons, markers or pencils
• Stickers

You can likely find these items at just about any store, including dollar stores, party supply stores or online.

Be prepared for an emergency

If your child has a food allergy or if you are chaperoning a party, be sure you know the signs of an allergic reaction:

• Dizziness or fainting
• Hives or a rash
• Swelling of the lips or tongue
• Trouble breathing
• Vomiting or nausea
• Wheezing

The school nurse or the parent of a child with an allergy should have antihistamines or injectable epinephrine available for quick use if you notice these symptoms. If antihistamines or injectable epinephrine is not available and a child is experiencing anaphylaxis, call 911 or seek emergency care immediately.

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